Oh, dear. What happened?
Sarah, I don't know what happened, LOL, it was a mess. I was a mess. He didn't really understand what I was saying/asking and things got really confusing. See, I wrote him a letter (because I'm a chicken) and I tried to make sure he knew how I was feeling and what I was asking for but somehow he thought that I was saying that I wasn't happy or that he wasn't enough. Men!!! I tell him that he can have more control over me and I want him to be happy and that's what he gets out of it??? WTF! He is also great at saying the worst things at the worst time so he said some other things that he should've waited to say; in other words he made me feel like crap. We did talk again, last night, and I think we are closer to being on the same page. I'm trying to process everything. Thanks, I guess really needed to get some of this off my chest!
Misty!I'm so sorry that it didn't turn out how you expected, but don't give up. You have to keep communicating with him and telling him what you want. My husband and I are pretty new to this but I can tell you that he kind of thought the same thing when I first came to him and told him what I wanted. But I didn't give up, this was something I wanted and I needed him to understand that. He finally did but I can tell you it wasn't easy. He still struggles with it a little bit but were getting there. If you want to chat or have any questions please feel free to ask. You can get my email from my blog. Good luck and keep your head up, communication is the key!Subrina <3
Thank you so much Subrina!
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