abby over at finally finding "me" asks...
1. What is on your "kinky or submissive" bucket list....3 items, if possible.
I still want him to tie me up to a tree, or a couple of them
Be fully suspended
Make a video for him
2. When did you discover your submissiveness?
It was about a month before I started this blog, I think. We had some kinky sexual relations before that, and I was definitely on the submissive side, I just didn't know submissiveness was a thing. After reading a little bit about D/s it took me awhile to come to terms that I might actually want and like these things.
3. Submission is not supposed to be easy ( A quote from my Master)...do you agree or disagree.
I think submitting is a lot like running. It's extremely uncomfortable when you first start, but with time, practice, and a lot of sweat, you learn and your body adapts, and it gets easier. Nonetheless, no matter how long you've been doing it, there will still be bad days that make you question why you do it. You also have to keep pushing yourself to try new types of runs -long, fast, hills, intervals, in different types of weather, etc- to get the most out of running. If you went on the same run for years, always running the same pace and when the weather suited you, you wouldn't gain anything from that, there would be no growth. I shutter at the thought! Also, when you are finished with a run, especially a hard one, you have a strong sense of empowerment and accomplishment.
So, I agree, submission shouldn't be easy, for the most part. If it was always easy it wouldn't be submitting, and we wouldn't grow--we would just be walking down the same easy path over and over.