Monday, May 4, 2015

FetLife is...Different

All week I kept thinking of things I could write about, now that I'm here I can't think of a single thing. Surprise, surprise. Guess I will have to jot down ideas as they come.
I don't think I'm going to like this limited blogging thing. I miss writing already. I do think he will be happier with me though, and that is what's important.
We signed up for FetLife...interesting place that is. Glad I found blogging first. I've only been on a few times (obviously, time is limited there, as well), so still getting used to it--I feel so far out of my element. Some of it makes me wonder if we are doing what we thought we were doing. Lol.
And they have all these different labels...effing labels. I picked slave, but...
And the pictures! They're everywhere. Seriously, there's no lack of private parts around there. Nothing like here. Not that I mind! I mean, it's totally helpful to know what ones asshole looks like before making friends, right?
One girl I came across said on her profile that she wouldn't friend anyone that didn't have pictures...why is that? I mean, not like I can't grab some random picture of someone and claim that it's me. I don't know, just found that interesting.
I told Daddy that it might be a good idea to have a picture of me on there (everyone else is doing it!). I didn't think he would even consider it, but he said not right now, which means one day... a picture of me on the internet that is connected to all of this... yeah, I didn't think that one through before I asked. It kinda makes me want to delete the account, yet go take a bunch of pictures for him to choose from...you know, just to have them at the ready. Lol. 

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  1. I joined fet a couple months ago, and havent really spent much time on it, i dont have a picture there, i thought about it, and decided not to....perhaps one day.

    Although i dont object to explicit pics, there is absolutely no way i would have my pussy or my ass hole on display...not my thing lol, i prefer more tasteful images personally.

    Oh if you dont object may i have your nic, i dont mind you not having a pic :) mine is His_tori

    x

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    1. tori, I would object to pussy and asshole pics, as well. Actually, I prefer to be clothed, like bra and panties for example or, even better, a parka. Lol.

      For now I'm going to keep Fet away from this place, hope you understand!

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  2. Ah yes...FetLife. Quite an interesting little place. And just when you thought you had seen some extreme things you get on there and realize what you do by many standards is tame. LOL! It can be a good source for friends and local events, but it has it's share of BS too. Good luck with the pic thing. ;)
    Feel free to look me up and send a friend request on Fet. Same name as here. And before you go looking, no I have no naked or crotch pics on my profile. LOL!

    DV

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    1. what DV im disappointed i was just going to rush over and check out your cock lol

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    2. DV, and I'm thinking that tame isn't all that bad! Lol. Or, at the very least, there is no reason to rush.

      Like I told tori, I'm going to keep this place away from there for now, but if that changes I will definitely send you a request.

      What a party pooper you are, not having any naked pics! ;)

      Thanks for the comment, DV!

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    3. tori, your comment has me cracking up!

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  3. Fetlife is a great place for observing the activities of other people, and if you aren't careful for receiving approaches from men who have pictures of their bits on their profiles. I do find this amusing, but, mindful that I am a slave of course make it clear that those kinds of things are not allowed :) Happy to add anyone around blog land to my friend list there. I am subjoolz xxx

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    1. julie, it is neat to see all the different types of people running around there.

      I've already been approached by a penis, lol. No problem letting that one go! :)

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  4. I enjoy it (feel free to send me a friend request, I'm mc kitten on there too), but it's taken me a while to find the groups I'm happy in. I don't have any pictures of me on there, neither does he want me to, thank goodness. Too much of a privacy risk for me.

    I sadly have NEVER been propositioned on there, am obviously doing it wrong!

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    1. mc kitten, yeah, it seems like a lot of work, lol. Privacy is a HUGE deal for us, as well.

      Well, if you aren't looking for anyone, then sounds like you're doing it right! :)

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  5. I'm on FetLife too and like everyone else, find it interesting (sometimes) to say the least. I'm not there to hook up or look for a partner, just other like-minded people to chat with from time to time. My very favorite "friends" there are the very same friends I have here though. *smile

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    1. sub hub, I'm very satisfied with my blogging friends, and if we weren't looking for more, I wouldn't be there at all :)

      Thanks so much for stopping by!

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  6. Fetlife...
    Really useful if you want to get out to local events.
    Useful for points of discussion, other than that, not all that useful. Blogger, friends, I am on there as a different nickname,,,:-)

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    1. Bleuame, I am *completely* freaked out about going to any event...not that we have plans of going to one anytime soon, but that doesn't stop me from over-thinking it. Lol.

      I'm a different name, too.

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  7. Misty, I'm with you. I joined a while ago but found it a bit overwhelming. It's good for info about events and we're planning on going to our first munch this week. It's a learning curve I guess. Take care. Hugs.

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    1. K, how did it go?!? I admire you for taking that step, I'm definitely not there. He could probably make me go, but I would be a nervous wreck...ugh, even thinking about it...

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  8. Misty,

    I got all exicited about finding blogging friends on Fet for a moment,....that I realized I missed a point.

    Did he *ask* you to stop/limit blogging? Has he said if he is happy or happier about it?

    Maybe it would help to ask for specif feedback. "I realized that how much time I spent online was getting to be a problem, so here is what I did to solve it but now I feel..."
    Or..."I know that the time I spend online bothers you, how would you like me to fix it?"

    Blogging/writing is such a useful tool! And I found when I wasn't blogging, I needed another outlet to meet the need it fullfilled.

    Pics--a lot of people want to see pics in profile to know that you are a real person and there is a higher chance of you being real if you have friends/pics. They are also the easiest thing to identify you with--if you are going to post pictures on Fet, don't post them elsewhere because image searching is such an easy feat---which is why a lot of people refrain from posting pictures *just had to give my safety tip*

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    1. I meant, the same pictures. If you post pics on FL don't post those same pics elsewhere...unless you don't care :-)

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    2. Bleuame, the blogging thing...sigh. He doesn't have a solution...honestly, I don't think there is one. This is just me saying enough is enough--I'm tired, so very tired, of the problem being there. After these last few days I see that I'm getting more done, and I kinda hate that. Lol. I have squeezed in a couple minutes here and there, and I did get to write this post, so maybe it won't be too terrible. :/ You know, thinking more on it, even though I really miss the writing/reading and I feel like I'm getting gypped, it feels good in other places...

      I figured that's why she wanted pics, but still thought it was interesting that it was so important and wondered if that was common (for people to expect pics). It does seem like most have them. Thank you for the safety tip, because I do care!

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  9. Hi Misty, I don't have a fet account but interestingly Rick recently joined. A very interesting place by all accounts! lol. I too found writing so helpful, not to mention the awesome feedback from blog friends :) I hope you find a happy balance between online time and 'other stuff'

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Roz, I feel so unbelonging on Fet, lol, but interesting it is.

      I have grown to love writing, and the interaction here is priceless...I hope I can figure out a way to be here more often.

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  10. I used to use Fetlife daily, but that was when we were active in the local community and everything. Was a great way to meet other local people, find events and such. I at one time deleted my account after the bad breakup with out ex - but a few months ago, we made new ones. I still haven't used it much since we did, though. Maybe once we are moved and are looking to rejoin the local community. :)

    Feel free to add me there though, if you like. I'm under mortuary_chick. :) xx

    Hugs!

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    1. brat, so nice to see you here!

      I can see how it would be beneficial if you are involved in the community. I haven't spent much time on there so I still feel very...intimidated. Lol.

      That must have been one bad break up!

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  11. I have a Fetlife account, same name as blogger, but haven't a clue what I should do with it. I peek in, then run out, primarily because I don't know where I fit in. Is there a mildly kinky group, or would like to be a sub, but husband isn't with me on it group. I shouldn't think so.

    Good luck and stick to words, rather than pictures.
    hugs
    DF

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    1. DF, lol!! Sounds like me, I poke around for like 5 minutes and leave. I really have no idea what I'm doing. Lol.

      I do plan on writing there...but I'd much rather spend that time writing here!

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  12. Never joined Fetlife and I'm not too sure it's for me. I have no problem with explicit words and photos but, for now, I feel that I have the personal connections I wanted with others in this lifestyle right here in blogland.

    Keep us updated on how it goes!

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    1. Pearl, I feel a bit sheltered (if you can believe that) having been here, which is a very good thing. I might have ran off screaming in the night if I found Fet before I came here. Lol.

      Oh, I am sure to keep you updated :)

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