I sat down, like a million days ago (which was probably more like three days ago), to write a post. I started listing off ways that I'm submissive outside of our relationship (tori gave me the idea on my last post) because I am that--a submissive person.
Anyway, while I was listing, I got to wondering...
Will someone find my natural submissiveness offensive in some way? Will someone think that I'm bragging? Will they see me as weak or as a pushover?
'Cause that's a thing right? Natural versus not natural, submissive versus slave, etcetera, etcetera.
People thinking they are better than the next, because their way is the best way.
People thinking they are superior because they "do more" or do it the "right way", or even because they "would never do that".
This has to be one of the stupidest things. Ever.
This is not a competition. There are no ladders here -within and between labels-, there are only ladders within ourselves.
A sub is no less of a person, no less of a partner, than a slave--and vise versa.
A slave isn't more of a slave because they are more willing or have more rules.
Just because something isn't right for you, doesn't mean it isn't right for me.
We are just...different.
We are only human, therefore judgments such as this will come from the best of us, but it's still pretty stupid.
And that's that.
Now, just bear with me for another million days and I'll finish that post ;)