Tuesday, August 21, 2018

Wrapping It Up

It has been a long time since I have posted here. I have thought about writing many times. I don’t like it when blogs just... end. I didn’t want to leave y’all hangin’, I just didn’t know what to say. Honestly, I still don’t.

I am no longer married.

I am no longer a sub.

Life doesn’t always go as planned. It sucks and it hurts.

I look back at these pages and I see a girl who struggled a lot, who deeply loved her husband, and who wanted to be a sub... no, a slave.

I am no longer that girl.

Okay, I still struggle, but that’s it! I am none of those other things.

I found Dominance.

I found my independence.

And I am never going back.

Submission put color in my world, but Dominance has put color in my soul.

I am Domme.

It is the best thing EVER.

I do not regret being a sub, being his wife, or writing these pages, because it all led me to here.

Smile for me because I am making my life what I want it to be and I have found strength I didn’t know I had.

The End


  1. Hi Misty,

    It's funny the turns life takes and where we end up. I have been following your new journey as you know. I'm so glad you have found the 'real you' and wish nothing but a future of happiness for you.


    1. It is crazy!

      Thank you, Roz. I really appreciate you following me for all this time.

  2. What a wonderful update..thank you for sharing. Life sometimes surprises us...in the best ways. So happy to hear you have found your way....wishing a happy future...hugs abby

    1. It has been rough, abby, but the future looks bright. :)

  3. Hey, wish you the best! Sounds like a lot of changes. Can you fill in the gaps on how you switched from sub/slave to domme? Have you found a male to dominate?

    Best wishes,

    1. Yes, a LOT of changes. I’m exhausted!

      I found out that he was interested in Femdom and it sprang to life from there. I have not dominated anyone in person (besides my ex). The divorce was finalized not long ago so I am recouping.

  4. I will cherish this blog because of the connection we created here. I can't say I fully understand the transition, because, well I'm a sub...LOL. BUT I am so very happy that you have found who you are.

    Thank you for sharing your sub journey, together I think we learned a lot back then. I will enjoy reading your new life and discoveries just as much. I still think you should open up an advice section on your blog for Doms because I think your unique perspective could be very helpful.

    Much love

    1. Thank you, willie.

      Being a Domme has its perks just as being a sub has its perks, I just like the Domme perks a hell of a lot more. :)

      Maybe I will in the future, when I have more experience... I would probably enjoy it.

  5. I am no longer HIS girl, I'm hers. And ill always be sub because it is what I am and I can never be anything else. And I'm still out here in this crazy world. And you prolly still have my number if you want to use it. And I'm still here.

    1. lil, it is really great to hear from you! I read your post, as well... *pulls up a chair and pours a couple drinks

  6. Good hearing from you. Glad that you're finding yourself.

  7. I was so pleased to find your blog, and then I realised I have missed you. I hope I fet to read some more of your posts from this blog. Perhaps one day I will enjoy your Domme Chronicles?


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